That awkward moment...

...When a woman's argument against feminism proves exactly why she needs it:

Here's my take on that:

 

You deserve better. You deserve to be respected and loved. You deserve this regardless of your sexual fantasies or taste in men. I don't care who you date or what kind of sex you engage in, so long as your partner respects you.
Of course, masculinity is a social construct, but even still, it is wrong for anyone to disrespect you or force you to do something you don't want to do. You're probably thinking that won't be a problem if you're also into that stuff. But it says something about his character if he disregards your feelings. He could do something you don't like, and there would be no way out because he wouldn't care. That is a terrible risk.